It's (almost) Christmas!

Days are fast approaching. Twenty six (26) days to go and it's Christmas! As soon as the calendar reached  the 'BER' months, it feels a lot like Christmas. Every year seems to go on like that. September signals the start of the Yuletide Season here. I heard it said a couple of times that we, Filipinos, have this practice of celebrating Christmas at a very early time of the year - and in my own opinion, this so interesting. When I was in Singapore, it was something I dearly missed along with the extended Christmas vacation. Sure I got to enjoy the bright lights, the grand display and the big Christmas trees in Singapore especially along the stretch of Orchard Road, but I still would think of Christmas back home. 

This year, it was 1st of September when I heard the song A Perfect Christmas by Jose Mari Chan being played in the neighborhood. I was then preparing my coffee and I couldn't help but to sing along. A Perfect Christmas is a Christmas love song. Just like Christmas In our Hearts which is Jose Mari's biggest Christmas hit duet with his daughter,  A Perfect Christmas is one I truly like  along with the rest of his original compositions like Constant  Change and Love of a Lifetime. Though the song is rarely played nowadays in the radio or in public places, A Perfect Christmas still holds an impact and remains to be one of my personal favorites among Jose Mari's compositions, which he himself sang, and revived by other Filipino female artists like Jaya and Sarah Geronimo. Here is Jaya's rendition of the song:

 




My idea of a perfect Christmas
Is to spend it with you
In a party or dinner for two
Anywhere would do
Celebrating the yuletide season
Always lights up our lives
Simple pleasures are made special too
When they're shared with you

Looking through some old photographs
Faces and friends we'll always remember
Watching busy shoppers rushing about
In the cool breeze of December
Sparkling lights all over town
Children's carols in the air
By the Christmas tree
A shower of stardust on your hair
I can't think of a better Christmas
Than my wish coming true
And my wish is that you'd let me spend
My whole life with you


Christmas here in the Philippines also means a great time for many Filipino native cakes. In my place alone, a portion of a street near one of the churches here was allotted for bibingka and puto bumbong vendors every night. As of yet I have not tried the putong bumbong or if even if I have, I could not recall its taste. Maybe one of these days this year, I would try some:-) 


It's a different thing when it comes to bibingka. My love for this native delicacy traces back from childhood. Dang Guy (Aunt Guy) would sell the same infront of their house at the price I remember - P7.00 (or even lower) . Those days she would cook and sell bibingka not during Christmas but during Lenten Season. I, with all excitement and childhood enthusiasm, would go to her to buy. I would watch her prepare and cook the bibingka. She would pour the mixture on clay pots with pre-cut banana leaves over a charcoal-lit stove. Once the mixture was poured on the clay pots, she would cover the same with special improvised oven, also lit with charcoals. I would patiently wait for the bibingka to get cooked and would rejoice in the sight of seeing Dang Guy spreading margarine and freshly grated coconut on it. Just like how my love for bread has grown over time, so has my love for bibingka. Nowadays it is a relief to know  that there are easy ways to cook bibingka. One does not have to do it the traditional way. Also, other than grated coconut, bibingka now also comes in various toppings such as salted eggs, cheese, etc.  And oh, btw, aside from Bibingkinitan outlet, there is one stall in a nearby area which sells bibingka almost year round :-)


Bibingka and the charcoal stove used for cooking this native cake



Charcoal stove - the traditional way to cook bibingka. 


 Different toppings to enjoy bibingka!

So there, now I'm craving for one ahehe. 
Anyway, here we go. Christmas is fast approaching and very soooon it will come. Amidst the hustles and bustles that this season will surely bring , I wish everyone a truly blessed Christmas. Although we really do not know the exact date of Jesus' birth, what's important is that He is remembered with gratefulness not just this Christmas but for always. He came here on earth - to die for our sins - and that's the real thing. 
Merry Christmas everyone! 

Tagaytay City

The weather was something I did not expect upon our arrival. I expected a breezy and cool weather just like the one I experienced when I visited the place in March 2011 along with my brother and my  parents who were then celebrating their 39th wedding anniversary. But though my expectations about the weather were not met, I anticipated and looked forward to something wonderful about our 3-day stay in Tagaytay City.
It was already past 1pm when we got there on Friday. Our group did not make it for the morning tour which composed of choices at the Sky Ranch, Picnic Grove, Mansion Puzzle, Zipline and Palace in the Sky. Among those options, Picnic Grove is the only spot I've gotten to see as of yet, thus leaving me with good reasons to go visit again  Tagaytay someday.
We proceeded to the venue of the conference, waited a little while at the function hall while our coordinators checked on our room assignment. After a few minutes, we headed on to Room 17 at the Elijah Hall which is at the far end of the center, beside the playground and the basketball court. It was already past 2pm when we finished settling down and oh boy, by that time, we haven't had our lunch yet! It's a good thing however, that we have our leaders, Phebe and Len, who gladly did us some favor such as buying lunch for us, among others.  And we were just so grateful for their hearts to serve! They delivered meals to our place, which we enjoyed at the parking lot (we were not allowed to do it anywhere else inside the center). We were in a hurry, and I think I've finished my chicken meal in 5 minutes and after that we proceeded right to our assigned room and prepared for the opening program.

Me during the first day of the conference

Singles from the different sectors gathered at the plenary hall for the opening program. I was greatly encouraged to see the couple, Phua Hee and Angie Low, our guest speakers from Singapore. My fond memories of Angie include a lesson time of our D-group with her. I was not expecting that the couple still know or remember me, but I was glad that when I approached them before the opening program, Angie managed to recognize me that she even took notice of my haircut (I used to have a long hair)! Aside from them, it was also great to see the rest of Filipino singles from Singapore, Joie and Joy,  who have come back here for good, as well as Doris whom at first looked so familiar to me and I thought I've seen in one of the events until we both finally realized that it was in Singapore that we met and got to fellowship with each other !  Oh no! my memory is perforated with holes that I barely recall things!
The second day was full packed with different lessons intended to cater to specific and varying needs of the delegates/participants. Among the classes I've attended were the following: (in the morning: Fan (the faith) Into Flame and Stewardship of Talents and Gifts. For afternoon lessons, I chose the classes on Defending the Faith, Church History  and Antidotes of Impurities. It rained hard in the afternoon thus leaving a cool weather in the evening, which I liked very much. 
On the third day was the closing program, during which we posted on a big butterfly wall a piece of paper which contains the specific character or areas that we want to change or grow out from. I am hoping that I keep myself reminded of the thing I wrote in there. 

My paper was posted somewhere there!

In the entirety, the conference was awesome! It's true that I was not able to get my desired tour nor fill my cravings for hot soup of bulalo while enjoying a good view of the Taal Volcano. It's true as well that I did not get to experience the windy Tagaytay and the theme park at Lemery, Batangas just like the way I did during my previous visit - but I pretty much enjoyed the conference even so.  
By the way, below are some of the photos during my visit in 2011 which captured a windy Tagaytay (take notice of my hair!!! haha!)

This is where we enjoyed a sumptuous bulalo lunch while having a good view of the Taal Volcano.

Do you see how the leaves of the palm tree are being blown by the wind? (I am not sure if it is a palm tree anyway ehe.) That's how strong the wind was when we went to Tagaytay in 2011



ooops! Bad hair day haha!


The tripod could not stand the strong winds (with emphasis on the word "strong") 

So I have to ask the guard to take a photo of us :-)




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My Chicken Adobo Recipe

Adobo. There are many versions of this popular local dish. My mother cooks adobo in such a way that she lets it sit in low fire until the sauce becomes dry. On some occasions, she lets it simmer just right in order for us to have enough amount of sauce to pour into our rice bowls. 

During childhood, whenever my beloved bapa (uncle) would come home with some chicken, mother would usually cook adobo. By then, I and my older siblings would patiently wait while the meat was being boiled and tenderized in a cooking pot over a firewood-stove set on the ground at our backyard. Mother would usually add tomatoes in her adobo (not all the time though). From childhood until now, I must say that mother's adobo has tasted simply the best for me:-)

What I'm sharing in this blogpost is completely different however in the way adobo is done at home. It is a recipe I've learned from my former colleague in Singapore. It's worth a try, I must say. So let's get started:

YOU WILL NEED:
 
Pork or chicken
Potatoes (optional)
vinegar or lime juice (for my recipe, I used lime juice)
soy sauce
garlic (crushed)
onion
chili pepper (optional)
Ground pepper 
ginger (crushed) (NOTE: only for chicken adobo)


HOW TO COOK:

1. Boil meat for 30 minutes. Set aside.
2. Prepare marinade sauce using the stock. Add all the ingredients listed above except chili pepper, potatoes and onion. (Remember to use ginger only for chicken adobo)
3. Marinate the meat into the sauce for 15-30 minutes. 
4. In a separate pan, fry the potatoes, then the marinated meat for 5 minutes.
5. Add the marinade sauce for soup base. (Add water depending on your taste)
6. Simmer. 
7. Sprinkle onions and chili pepper 

It may look like a bistig, but this is the  adobo recipe which is definitely worth a try:-)


Enjoy your chicken adobo meal! 

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Aquaball

AQUA BALL FUN. I've first spotted this activity at the outdoors of SM Mall in Baguio City sometime in 2009. I saw a girl struggling to stand up and run through the waters while inside an inflated big ball. And I thought that was fun.


When I saw the same activity just recently at the outdoors of SM City Clark in Angeles City, I was very glad and immediately thought of taking my nephews and my niece there for fun. I've checked from the staff how long would they be staying at the mall and I was told that the exhibit would run for one month. My two nephews were flying in from Italy in a few days, so I pinned that down on my schedule of activities when they  come home for a short vacation. 

That day, I and my other siblings took my two nephews along with the rest of the family kids to SM City Clark to experience the activity. We were supposed to go to the Dinosaurs Island (also in Clark) and used the tickets I purchased at Granton but alas! when I made a call to the management I learned that the Dinosaurs Island was closed  (take note: only that day) in light of some projects within the Clark zone. I was greatly disappointed upon hearing that! We were set to go. We were already dressed up, and the kids were all set for the supposed visit to Dino Island. "What now?" I was asked. It was my mistake not to check and make a call beforehand. At first I thought of taking them instead to Zoobic Safari or Ocean Adventure in Subic, Zambales but then going some extra distance was not among the options that time. After discussing it over with my siblings I decided to take them instead to SM City Clark, thinking that the Aqual Ball Fun would compensate and offset the disappointment that I saw from the kids upon learning they were not going to see the dinosaurs.


And surely enough, when we got there, we forgot about our disappointment over us not being able to go to Dinosaurs Island. The kids enjoyed their time inside the inflated balls.  Below are some of their photos: 




My four nephews crawling their way through the water. 





The girl inside the white ball struggles to run through the waters and keeps her balance, to no avail




My niece and four nephews along with other kids kept testing their balance above the water while inside the ball. 

No matter what amount of struggle they put in, they simply just couldn't keep up. 





When their time was up, I was happy to see the kids smiling and laughing for the experience. From the looks of it, I knew they had so much fun :-)


My nephews and niece before getting inside the aqua balls



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My Blog Signature

Lately I've been caught up with the plan of changing the entire look of my blog and switching and importing my current blog to other host sites.  Either way, I'm stuck - and I gave up at this point in time as I realized that I have not gone yet to that point of overhauling this entire thing (I mean my blog) technically wise. I just got too inspired and overwhelmed by several bloggers who have managed to create and design their own sites. That was so interesting that I thought of doing the same. I have the option though to get the service of other host sites but then doing so would require a purchase, so I put aside this option. 
Over the entire week I've been scanning through several blogs both on Google and Wordpress - and the designs and lay out templates put an envy on me (not the negative type of envy hahaha!) that I wish I could design and layout my blog as wonderful and systematic like those ones. For several hours, I've found myself working on some template codes to get it done on my blog but then in most attempts I failed (sigh!) - this is particularly true when I tried to put signature on every post. I painstakingly followed through the steps recommended by one blogger. I was glad to see my signature during preview, but when I applied the template on my blog and checked on my posts, NO signature actually appears. Instead, what popped up at the topmost portion of my blog was the CSS codes that I have put in! And that was frustrating! I have successfully managed though, to label my posts and add the LABELS gadget on my right bar. You see the LABELS on the right side of my blog post? Yeah, that's it. That's one of the results of my navigation attempts on CSS codes haha! Crazy me! For a non-tech savvy like me, applying CSS codes and getting the desired look for my blog seem to be difficult for me to do at this moment. I admit though that'd pretty easy, I just need time and patience to get things done. Yeah, correct. Time and patience. So for other things (layout, design and background) I guess in time I will (can) do that. 
On the other note, I am happy that I came across another blogpost on how to put signature on blog entries. I like the idea of having a signature after every post - that makes it more intimate and personalized right? haha I'm such a bummer! 
Anyway, here it is - my signature, MHY FOR MHY STORIES (Mhy is my pet name, and MhyStories for my blog description). I chose the cursive and curly font which seems to be dancing and moving and flowing and free!!! And the color red was not my real choice. I was hoping to have pink or purple or lilac or any shades in between, but then I cannot get the bar on the color of my choice - so red was the color! 
This signature will automatically appear right after every post I publish on my blog. 


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I think this signature says a lot about my personality



Lastly, I just want to say that I love this signature!




Baguio's Night Market

Okay, first thing first. I actually almost held back from posting this entry as this will reveal something about my personality (or shall i say character?) of being such a frugal when it comes to buying clothes. I really do not know you would think about that, but I am just particularly happy about this thing. So, here goes.


Two months ago I saw a blue blazer in one of the boutiques at a popular mall here. I really wanted to buy but it was a bit pricey to me (with emphasis on the words to me). It costs P795.00. If I wanted to, I could buy the blazer right there and then, but I found it difficult to shell out such amount for a piece of clothing which at that moment was not a necessity for me. To make the story short, I did not buy the blazer. On several occasions though, I remember checking whether or not it has been sold out already and felt relieved to see it still on display along with other merchandise. I even went to the mall one time during sale in the hope of finding it on a marked down  price but then the 10% discount for me was not enough (I was hoping for 20-50% discount, lol!).


Came Friday last week. I was on official business travel to Baguio and I took the opportunity to go to the night market (flea market) along Harrison Road. Before the night market starts at 9:00 p.m.,  I was able to run through some selections at ukay-ukay shops along Bayanihan where I happened to buy 2 pcs. of blazers at P250.00 each. I waited a little while until the shops opened at 9:00 o'clock in the evening. There I jostled through the crowd, looking for blazers. As usual, the night market is jam packed! There are lots and lots of merchandise such as shoes, shirts, jackets, dresses, blouses and other items that are up for grabs at very low, low prices (for as low as P10!) 


Baguio's night market has become a haven of cheap yet great finds, usually clothing, for Baguio people and tourists alike. Below photos (not mine) show how this activity has turned out to be one of the major night activities in the city:









Hooray to me for finding some blazers after patiently scanning through plenty of displayed items on racks. The first one (below pix) I got for P80 only. I love the pockets and the mesh detail at the front and back.






The photo below shows the rest of the items that I bought. The one with white lining and ribbon on both pockets costs P250 (I got this from the Bayanihan shop), while the imperial purple one (upper left and lower left) which needs change of buttons, by the way, was only P50, like the polka dotted one. There were two (2) pieces more. But before I decided to write this post, I already soaked them for washing. That's the reason they did not make it in this photo shoot haha!




Overall, I spent P730 for several pieces of good quality blazers. So when I think of my buy at Baguio City's night market and the blazer worth P795 which I've seen in the mall two months ago, I couldn't help but smile. Being able to buy six items at a price which is a lot cheaper than that of the lone piece of item in the mall sounds pretty smart, don't you think?  



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FOGGY WEEKEND IN BAGUIO

I'm having a good day today. The raisin bread from Cinnabon has added extra goodness to this moment. Oh well, as always, raisins make my day (be it raisin bread, chocolates with raisins, or simply raisins!). Raisin is a childhood favorite, with special strings of memories attached to it, as it is one of bapa's (uncle) usual pasalubong for me and my siblings back when we were kids.

By the way, I feel light from spending the weekend in Baguio City, along with my family, though I wish for more and longer out-of-town vacation and family bonding. The short vacay was the idea of Mike, my brother-in law, who came home for a short vacation here in the Philippines along with his entire family - Evelyn, my sister, and their two (2) kids, Jiru and Ian. He said that they (Mike and his family) would come along with us in sending off Tefen, our bunso, to college. It was foggy when we arrived there on Friday. I was told that it has been raining for almost one week straight before our arrival. I was so thankful that the weather has gone better when we got there, allowing us to enjoy the entire weekend :-)





Fog began to roll down and cover the houses. The cold damp is a delightful welcome to the City of Pines!


On Saturday,  inang (mother) celebrated her 62nd birthday. A week before going to Baguio, we threw a pre-birthday surprise for her, which was my brother-in-law's idea, anyway, as not all family members were coming along with us to Baguio City. He was right. The pre-birthday celebration came as a pleasant surprise for inang. Everybody was present. I remember Mike getting emotional when inang and tatang (father) finished saying a short prayer that time. Oh, really, I can't be thankful enough for that moment.

After lunch, we went boating at Burnham Park. Evelyn, inang and ching Monette did not come with us for reason that they were afraid. I admit I was, too, but then I decided to join the ride, which is my third time since college. Kong Omar and Mike got into the boat as our rowers! We had a great time, but the kids, Jiru and Ian enjoyed the most! They were laughing and laughing and even shouting during the ride, especially when our boat hit other boats, and vice versa.  




Our rower, Mike, my brother-in-law, and Kong Omar, my older bro.


The kids were shouting!


The sun was up when we were leaving for home on Sunday. We didn't plan what to eat for lunch, and Evelyn, who got tired from walking that day, decided in a hurry to dine at KFC where she ordered bucket meal. I was not in the mood to eat fried chicken for lunch, I was craving for something else and so I invited ching Monette to go look for other place to dine. We headed on to upper Session Road and stopped at Point and Grill where we ordered pork sisig and sinigang na ulo ng tuna (tuna head stew). We were satisfied with our meals that I wished that the rest of my family had dined there as well. After finishing our meals, we went back to KFC to meet them.

After lunch the rest of the group went to the market to buy some pasalubong.  I asked Erna to buy me Good Shepherd products, the ube jam (purple yam jam), which I would bring home as pasalubong for my colleagues. I was surprised to know that the market ran out of stocks of ube jam from Good Shepherd due to non-availability of raw material, the vendors told my sister. There were no fresh strawberries either, even at the shops along Kennon Road. So for substitute, I bought other Baguio products like Romana peanut brittle, ube and pandan crinkles and choco flakes.

When it was time for us to leave, we accompanied Tefen to her boarding house. Jiru cried, and so did inang, who kept on giving reminders to Tefen. I could see how Tefen was holding back her tears , to no avail, at one point. She was teary eyed when she gave Jiru a tight hug. Family separation is painful, I myself can attest to that. But then it is not as bad and difficult as it was back then. Thanks to today's technology :-)! And besides, there is ONE up there to watch over her and protect her, and with that loving protection, I know that Tefen, our dear bunso, will get by. She'll be fine in college. 



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NO TIME

"Wish I could grab time by tail and say whoooaaa!", a friend once wrote to me. As I look out the window and indulge myself with a premium twist donut and coffee under this overcast weather, I realize that I have been wishing the same wish a few weeks ago. I have planned many things (like blogging) but until now never get to accomplish. Last week I checked on my gadget and browsed through several photos which I planned to blog beforehand but have almost forgotten. 



As I ponder on this, I see that time has slipped away so fassttt! Today is August 4. And this month of August, in four weeks' time, will give birth to "BER" months and sooner than we think, 2014 is over. I may appear like being exaggerated in my time calculations, but that's exactly it is. Time flies too fast. In a brief moment 2014 will soon close its door for another year. 



Jeanne (my travel buddy) and I talked about the same matter in passing while traveling to Angeles City yesterday. It seems it was only yesterday when we reached the month of July and now it's August. Time, indeed, is a precious commodity that seems to come only in passing. It is here now, tomorrow it's gone. It does not linger. It does not wait. It easily slips away. In my readings one night, I came across this beautiful poem about TIME:



I went out, Lord.

People were coming and going

Walking and running.

Everything was rushing

Cars, trucks, the street, the whole town



People were rushing not to waste time

They were rushing after time,

To catch up with time.

To gain time. 


And so all people run after time, Lord. 

They pass through life running

Hurried, jostled, overburdened, frantic. 

They never get there.

 They have no time. 

Inspite of all their efforts

They're still short of time. 

Of a great deal of time. 



Lord, you must have made a mistake in your calculations. 

There is a big mistake somewhere. 

The hours are too short. 

Our lives are too short.


You give each one time to do what you want him to do.

But we must not lose time, waste time, kill time

For it is a gift that you give us

But a PERISHABLE GIFT

A gift that DOES NOT KEEP


I read through the poem I think twice or thrice, giving extra attention to the last two verses of the 4th paragraph which says that TIME is a gift. Such a wonderful gift yet perishable in nature. It is something that one cannot keep. 



When I woke up this morning, I hurried off, I would be late for my work. I have no time to stop awhile for some quiet moments with the ONE who gives time. I was busy preparing myself. I was running late. I have no time, so I thought. 



Has the GIVER of time made some mistakes in his calculation and distribution of time? The hours seem short. I feel like I always do not have time for the things I want to do and accomplish. Did God make some mistakes somewhere?



I DON'T THINK SO.



This morning, I thought of reading again the poem and these lines caught my attention: 



Lord, I have time

I have plenty of time, 

All the time that you give me,

The years of my life, 

The days of my life

The days of my years, 

The hours of my days, 

They are all mine.

Mine to fill quietly, calmly

But to fill completely, up to the brim

TO OFFER THEM TO YOU....




Oh, I realized, that indeed, I have plenty of time.





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The Voice Kids (Philippines) Semi-Finals: Darren, Lyca My Personal Fave

Now I am watching The Voice Kids and I will try to finish up in between commercial breaks.  Edray from Team Bamboo and Ton Ton from Team Lea have just rendered their performances. They were not my personal bets, but I say that they are really good. Ton Ton sang One Day In Your Life, and I will go with what Coach Bamboo has said. The song just reflected Ton Ton's personality. Edray sang her piece very well, too. They are not my personal bets in this competition, but I can say that they really deserve to be among the six (6) semi-finalists. 


Darren from Team Sarah has done performing, and owwww emmmm geeee! He did it again, this time with the song One Moment In Time! He finished it off like a grand winner. His performance is something that I always look forward to since he performed Listen from last week's sing-offs. I was trying that time not to look at him on TV and simply  listened to his voice which then sounded to me like one from recording, or directly from a CD. His voice definitely knocked me off my feet. It is clean, he hit the high notes  perfectly and what else can I say? He sings and performs like a pro. His performance tonight is perfect! As described by Coach Leah, it's phenomenal! His journey from Calgary to the Philippines (for this competition) (he is Filipino-Canadian) is definitely all worth it :-) Congratulations Darren! It's still a long way to go, but as yet, you are my winner. I hope you can make it all the way to the Grand Finale. Btw, ang guwapong bata mo. Ayiii:-)




Juan Karlos, another semi-finalist, sang Sway with a real swag. I was not able to watch the episode when he auditioned and when he performed in sing-offs, but he is equally good. And Lyca? Oh Lyca, I wish she can make it to the finals, alongside Darren. So that the battle will be between her and Darren..Aww! But Darleen, the "girl on fire", is another contender to reckon with. Darleen's personality is as charming as her performances. She takes the whole stage when she performs and she does every performance like a winner. Cannot wait tomorrow night for the announcement of the top four (4) semi-finalists who will get the most text votes from the public. Speaking of winning by text votes in talent shows on TV, I do not personally like this idea  for some reasons, or shall I say under these three (3) circumstances: 1) if my  bet does not have enough following for reason that she does not plainly or simply have "it" 2) she or he is well-liked but those who like him or her do not bother to buy loads just to make their votes or are "lazy enough" to cast their text votes  and 3) if my bet does not have "capable supporters" to get and generate other support. I do not personally go with this idea (winning by text votes) especially when my personal fave loses the competition for such reasons hahaha but anyway, that's the way it is. Most of the talent shows nowadays are sort-of commercialized in this way. Cellphone networks are "in" in the competition ehe.  


Back to the show contenders, who among them wins? Let's see in the coming days. I am saying that Darleen is a strong contender. But I hope it's gonna be Lyca. or Darren. or Lyca. or Darren. or Lyca. hahaha. Either.


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Her Love Letter

Her name is Renser Juesa, the only niece (so far) among a bunch of our nephews. Renser Juesa or Ue Ue as we fondly call her, turned 9 last week. One time last year (or early this year? ) while cleaning up the house, I stumbled upon a piece of paper which, when was about to throw in the garbage bin, I discovered contained a writing by her.


Her letter went like this:

(Jesus it's okay even if you did not grant my wish,  just don't take my parents from me because I love them so much. And I am praying they will live long. Thank you, Jesus)


It was not a perfect letter, there are words wrongly spelled, but I was moved while reading it. I asked UeUe  of the date when she wrote the letter, but she was reluctant to answer. She appeared surprised and embarrassed to know that I saw her writing. It gave me the impression that her letter is not meant for showing to anyone, it was a thing she intended to keep only between herself and the one to whom she has written. I didn't come to know exactly the "wish" that she mentioned in this letter, but I was particularly grateful about the fact that at a young age, she has the heart to think about others above her own interests. I admire her  attitude not to whine over 'wishes not granted' and accept that not all things she wants, she gets.


We (her aunties) did not teach her to write letters, especially to Jesus, and I am very glad that she starts to write such letters at her own initiative. I myself write letters and prayers to God, but I never told her that. There were times she would see us reading the Bible, or she would come to me and see me jotting down some notes, but I never told her anything about those notes or what they are for, or whether they are letters to God or what. So seeing her putting her prayers into writing at her own volition means something to me. When I have found out about that, I have given her a notebook and encouraged her to write more. As of this writing, I have not checked if she did,  though. But whether she keeps writing or not, I wish and I really hope UeUe will grow up to be loving and God-fearing. 



She is such a joy to us



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College :-)

Schools officially opened early this month. I do not know about you, but when I was a little girl, such a thing had never been pleasant to me as school days meant my late afternoon sleep and my laid back days were over. It also meant that my sleeping hours had to be cut short. School opening, to me, had never been a welcome idea back then. Though most of my childhood memories of school are loaded with fun and enjoyment, I could say that waking up early in the morning was one difficult task that I endured during my days as a child whose idea of happiness purely focused on fun and play, eating, watching Popeye and Olive on TV, and lingering on my bed especially during mornings. When I graduated from elementary and grew past of childhood games and play, I admit my idea of school had changed, though I can say that one thing remains true until today: that my love for sleep has not dwindled a bit, in fact, it grew much even more now that I no longer attend school.


A couple of weeks ago, I accompanied Tefen, our youngest, enrolled in the same university where I graduated. She is now a freshman! How time really flies so fast! I remember her to be the little child I used to accompany in a primary school adjacent to my workplace. She was small and thin, and many a time we had difficulty waking her up in the morning. But those were the days. Now she looks different. Everybody in the office who used to see her as a child seems to get surprised to know how she has grown up.


She enrolled Hotel and Restaurant Management only to change her mind. As a result, I had to get back to the university to file for  change of course on her behalf. I had to go and travel up north one Saturday. I mean, I squeezed it on my schedule to do such a thing for her. That's the perks of being bunso in the family. They are likely to get pampering and favors. Sometimes ates would willingly do some little sacrifices and favors on their behalf over things which by nature are within their responsibility and call of duty to perform themselves. I am not saying that helping my sister or not allowing her do the filing herself is right, what I am saying is, I did. And I am happy I did such a favor for her. It is my way of giving back. Under many circumstances, I, too, have been like her, a beloved bunso who got to enjoy a lot of perks from my family.


I remember when I was a freshman, both my parents accompanied me in Baguio. I was the first in the family to be away, and the parting time was then new and heartbreaking. The pain was real as it all seemed to be the first time I thought of living on my own. I was young, and that time my idea of independence did not involve being away from my family. But my choice of college required me to live away from them. I was staring through the window, from my view I could see the heaviness of heart of both my parents as they walked away from my first boarding house. While watching them leave, I was brought to tears. I cried heavily that day. I saw that mother wanted to stay back for me. I knew it. I could tell. I learned later on that she was crying all over when they reached terminal and boarded the bus back home. She never wanted to leave me behind. She was worried big time if I could make it alone in the city. Little did mother know that I would survive and eventually learn so much from my independence in college. There was no cellphone and other communication gadget that time. It was later in college when beepers came into being. One time the telephone unit in my boarding house broke down and several days later I received a telegram (mail by post with limited wordings) from my parents informing me mother was worried because they could not contact me through long distance call.


I was nostalgic when I arrived to the university, my Alma Mater. My first visit after fifteen years. Almost every corner of the university looked familiar to me. Coming here alone feels different, though. I noted some changes in the campus: painting of the buildings, physical improvements and extensions, interior arrangement/set-up at the library. Now as I look back I can't help but be grateful about my college life. How this campus has helped shape me into the person I am today. College memories are a bitter-sweet and one-of-a-kind roller-coaster ride. The entire learning process and the family separation were mostly difficult and painful and yet rewarding.


I went to the Student Affairs Office first and from there I was guided on the filing process which I successfully completed after lunch. Since I had plenty of time, I toured the campus. Here are some of the photos while having a walk inside the campus which highlight two of my fave spots:


MY FAVORITE SPOTS IN THE CAMPUS AND A NEW FIND:


I have spent most of my classes at the Waldo Perfecto Building which housed the then College of Human Sciences (now School of Human Sciences).  But I did not find my spots there. Instead, I found my sanctuary in these two places inside the campus.

* Library. 6th Floor, Mezzanine.


There is an elevator in the library building (I was told) but the same has not been functional since the time I entered the school until I graduated. To get to the Reference Section of the Library, you have to endure the muscle pains of walking all the way up via two options, one, the stairs near Rizal Building that lead to the 4th floor of the library, and two, the stairs at the Burgos Center which connect to the 2nd floor of the Library .  In most cases I took the stairs at the Rizal Building. 


I love the silence and the overlooking view at the Reference Section, Mezzanine.

The Library Building. Up there was my favorite spot!


The stairwell that leads to the 6/F, Reference Section


The stairs beside Dr. Jose P. Rizal Building that connect to the 4th Floor Lobby of the Library Building


* University Pond. 

The pond was a second favorite. This is where I first attended a Bible Talk inside the campus.


This used to be my fave tambayan inside the campusI think they have cut down some of the weeping willows here. If my memory serves me right, it used to be surrounded and covered by willows, making it a more shady spot than it looks today.  







MY DISCOVERY 


This is my new find in the campus, which I think would have been a favorite if only it existed during my college days: THE MINI PARK at an elevated area beside the Library Building, just above the giant steps!
















Overlooking view from the mini-park




YOURS TRULY


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