Schools officially opened early this month. I do not know about you, but when I was a little girl, such a thing had never been pleasant to me as school days meant my late afternoon sleep and my laid back days were over. It also meant that my sleeping hours had to be cut short. School opening, to me, had never been a welcome idea back then. Though most of my childhood memories of school are loaded with fun and enjoyment, I could say that waking up early in the morning was one difficult task that I endured during my days as a child whose idea of happiness purely focused on fun and play, eating, watching Popeye and Olive on TV, and lingering on my bed especially during mornings. When I graduated from elementary and grew past of childhood games and play, I admit my idea of school had changed, though I can say that one thing remains true until today: that my love for sleep has not dwindled a bit, in fact, it grew much even more now that I no longer attend school.

A couple of weeks ago, I accompanied Tefen, our youngest, enrolled in the same university where I graduated. She is now a freshman! How time really flies so fast! I remember her to be the little child I used to accompany in a primary school adjacent to my workplace. She was small and thin, and many a time we had difficulty waking her up in the morning. But those were the days. Now she looks different. Everybody in the office who used to see her as a child seems to get surprised to know how she has grown up.

She enrolled Hotel and Restaurant Management only to change her mind. As a result, I had to get back to the university to file for  change of course on her behalf. I had to go and travel up north one Saturday. I mean, I squeezed it on my schedule to do such a thing for her. That's the perks of being bunso in the family. They are likely to get pampering and favors. Sometimes ates would willingly do some little sacrifices and favors on their behalf over things which by nature are within their responsibility and call of duty to perform themselves. I am not saying that helping my sister or not allowing her do the filing herself is right, what I am saying is, I did. And I am happy I did such a favor for her. It is my way of giving back. Under many circumstances, I, too, have been like her, a beloved bunso who got to enjoy a lot of perks from my family.


I remember when I was a freshman, both my parents accompanied me in Baguio. I was the first in the family to be away, and the parting time was then new and heartbreaking. The pain was real as it all seemed to be the first time I thought of living on my own. I was young, and that time my idea of independence did not involve being away from my family. But my choice of college required me to live away from them. I was staring through the window, from my view I could see the heaviness of heart of both my parents as they walked away from my first boarding house. While watching them leave, I was brought to tears. I cried heavily that day. I saw that mother wanted to stay back for me. I knew it. I could tell. I learned later on that she was crying all over when they reached terminal and boarded the bus back home. She never wanted to leave me behind. She was worried big time if I could make it alone in the city. Little did mother know that I would survive and eventually learn so much from my independence in college. There was no cellphone and other communication gadget that time. It was later in college when beepers came into being. One time the telephone unit in my boarding house broke down and several days later I received a telegram (mail by post with limited wordings) from my parents informing me mother was worried because they could not contact me through long distance call.

I was nostalgic when I arrived to the university, my Alma Mater. My first visit after fifteen years. Almost every corner of the university looked familiar to me. Coming here alone feels different, though. I noted some changes in the campus: painting of the buildings, physical improvements and extensions, interior arrangement/set-up at the library. Now as I look back I can't help but be grateful about my college life. How this campus has helped shape me into the person I am today. College memories are a bitter-sweet and one-of-a-kind roller-coaster ride. The entire learning process and the family separation were mostly difficult and painful and yet rewarding.

I went to the Student Affairs Office first and from there I was guided on the filing process which I successfully completed after lunch. Since I had plenty of time, I toured the campus. Here are some of the photos while having a walk inside the campus which highlight two of my fave spots:

MY FAVORITE SPOTS IN THE CAMPUS AND A NEW FIND:

I have spent most of my classes at the Waldo Perfecto Building which housed the then College of Human Sciences (now School of Human Sciences).  But I did not find my spots there. Instead, I found my sanctuary in these two places inside the campus.

* Library. 6th Floor, Mezzanine.

There is an elevator in the library building (I was told) but the same has not been functional since the time I entered the school until I graduated. To get to the Reference Section of the Library, you have to endure the muscle pains of walking all the way up via two options, one, the stairs near Rizal Building that lead to the 4th floor of the library, and two, the stairs at the Burgos Center which connect to the 2nd floor of the Library .  In most cases I took the stairs at the Rizal Building. 

I love the silence and the overlooking view at the Reference Section, Mezzanine.

The Library Building. Up there was my favorite spot!

The stairwell that leads to the 6/F, Reference Section

The stairs beside Dr. Jose P. Rizal Building that connect to the 4th Floor Lobby of the Library Building

* University Pond. 

The pond was a second favorite. This is where I first attended a Bible Talk inside the campus.

This used to be my fave tambayan inside the campus. I think they have cut down some of the weeping willows here. If my memory serves me right, it used to be surrounded and covered by willows, making it a more shady spot than it looks today.   MY DISCOVERY  This is my new find in the campus, which I think would have been a favorite if only it existed during my college days: THE MINI PARK at an elevated area beside the Library Building, just above the giant steps!

Overlooking view from the mini-park

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